Care is bound up with Loneliness. Care is what establishes
what matters to us, what we know, are attracted to, and to some extent, have
developed an affinity for or knowledge about over the course of extended years
or some period of experience.
Care and Community are intertwined so much so that a feeling
of community comes from a collective or shared sensibility about and regarding
care: that is, what matters and what does not, what finds its way onto the
agenda as something worth discussion and what does not. These matters are so
often reflective of social positions.
While the collective experience of many residing within the
Valley involves a concern for (care) about water and its lack, this fact also
stems from what is talked about and how it is talked about, about the discourse [ways of speaking about something]
enveloping and regulating it. This also explains, in part, why some (but not
all) tragedies are far from outcomes of ill-intentioned action but the product
of what the community does not want to acknowledge or fails to based on what
matters to it and what it has educated its people to emphasize, notice and
labor and think on.
Care and Community are also intertwined insofar as a
community might only come to feel a sense of shared identity in and through
express, actions and demonstrations that might elicit a feeling of
care. A shared struggle might suffice, whether intense, local and brief or
extended, sustained and generalized. These terms are imprecise, but the general
sense is that a People is not a given but an intentionally constructed, felt
and operative, in-process term. And likewise, given time and apathy on the part
of some (or many), such communities may dissolve, whether out of their own felt
purposelessness or a feeling their efforts and attention are required or
warranted elsewhere. In this way, the Care of and for a Community is bound up
with what it does, what it does not and with the contradictions, fallacies and
depredations it might very well (and does) produce, and the only way to access this sense
is in and through the phenomenology itself: of considering the felt nature of
these identities and inclinations (not to mention, how to talk about, discuss
and attempt to understand them in words and actions).
Loneliness, to some extent, is the result of a community’s
inability to care for some or many of its participants. Some basic, functional
practice precludes it from bearing a moral sense of obligation or
responsibility to that participant, or, in another way, that participant might
merely “fall through the cracks” so to speak, not ignored but neglected.
Importantly, neglect should not carry the negative, charged feeling and meaning
that it does, for ill-intentioned, maligned neglect is not neglect but
avoidance or evasion, terms which refer to a different category of neglect that
involves a calculation on the part of the moral actor regarding what is
important to them.